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Archive for February, 2008

Think of those times when you’ve had a breakthrough in your writing.
This comes after you’ve been struggling to clear the fog from your brain.  And then the fog lifts. 
It’s a great moment, right?  Then what do you do?
A client told me that she was putting in less time on her dissertation each day than she [...]

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If you put your energy around what you want, that’s what you’ll get.
One client told me that she had been ambivalent about all of the questions her dad had about her dissertation.  But she decided to make a positive out of the parental interest.  She saw that her dissertation could be a bridge in her [...]

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Writing a dissertation brings with it many hard choices.  Often those hard choices directly impact relationships. 
One dissertation client told his parents that he can’t talk about his dissertation with them—not when it’s going well and not when he’s stuck—because he feels that it opens him to too much scrutiny.
But he’s always ill at ease around [...]

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Several ABD’s have told me over the last few days about issues with parents, spouses, boyfriends or girlfriends, and even friends.
The boyfriend of one of my clients has made it clear that he thinks it’s taking far too long for her to finish her dissertation.  And the process drags on because she hesitates to work [...]

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Family and friends tend to give advice to ABD’s.  It’s usually well-meaning.  Sometimes it comes from personal experience and sometimes not. 
Rarely does it help.
What I often hear from my dissertation clients is how difficult it is for them to deal with family members’ over-investment in the dissertation process. 
Most ABD’s say that their family or others [...]

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Many authors and dissertation writers question themselves.  That snitty little voice in the back of your head encourages you to question each word, each page, each chapter.  Self-assessment can be a good thing, but what’s even better is to keep the writing going. 
1.  Tell yourself that the writing is just for now—keep repeating, “It’s good [...]

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A client who is moving ever closer to actually finishing her dissertation tells me that she is focusing on what she can do in the moment. 
She has found that being in the moment takes work.  There’s nothing airy-fairy about it.
And there’s much to be gained from staying in the moment. 
By focusing on the present, she [...]

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Want to feel calm, even fulfilled, while increasing your productivity?  And meet a dissertation deadline?  Read on.
Recently, I blogged about how a client achieved greater productivity in her writing. 
She and I had collaborated over what steps would most likely yield success.  Sticking to her plan gave her the success she wanted–she met her deadline by increasing her [...]

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One of my dissertation clients wanted greater daily productivity as she wrote toward a deadline. To achieve greater productivity, she knew she had some tightening to do.
I asked her on a scale of 1 to 10, how would she rate her current productivity.  7.0, she said.
When I asked what changes would raise the bar to [...]

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Dissertation writers occasionally come to an impasse, unsure of which way to go next.  You’ve probably been in this position.  You want to move forward, but it may seem prudent to wait—wait to see what your committee chair or mentor says, wait until you have a lot more time to read or go through your [...]

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