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Over the past week two different people, both of whom are approximately 32, seemed surprised that I had heard of the singing group Coldplay. 
The frenetic marketing of Coldplay’s new record would make it hard not to have heard of them.  To dig up a little more on Coldplay, I turned to YouTube. I found several [...]

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When I’m in line at the grocery, I read the latest celeb magazines.  If there’s an article about Tiger Woods, I’ll read about his wife and his yacht and, of course, his relationship with his father, but I’ve never been interested enough to take the time to see what are golf’s and Tiger Woods’s hold [...]

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A client who is moving ever closer to actually finishing her dissertation tells me that she is focusing on what she can do in the moment. 
She has found that being in the moment takes work.  There’s nothing airy-fairy about it.
And there’s much to be gained from staying in the moment. 
By focusing on the present, she [...]

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Want to feel calm, even fulfilled, while increasing your productivity?  And meet a dissertation deadline?  Read on.
Recently, I blogged about how a client achieved greater productivity in her writing. 
She and I had collaborated over what steps would most likely yield success.  Sticking to her plan gave her the success she wanted–she met her deadline by increasing her [...]

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1. What is the key to perseverance?
 Getting started is the key.
 The first step is the hardest.  Sit down and then stay there.
2. What is sending you right over the edge? 
 You are– Catastrophizing only raises your blood pressure.
 Who needs the drama?
 Remember: Catastrophizing is just another form of procrastination. 
3. Who could work at a desk stacked so [...]

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It’s a given that Thanksgiving and being grateful go together. 
But in Thanks!  How the new science of gratitude can make you happier, Robert A. Emmons goes beyond the commonplace notions on gratitude. 
•   Gratitude is acknowledging the help someone else has given us.
•   In spite of the difficulty and frustration we may experience in our writing [...]

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Writing is easier when you’re in a good mood. 
Researchers say that if you can generate a somewhat happy frame of mind, starting your writing and sticking with it will be easier.
So what can you do to bring about a happier mood?   Listen to some music!
Music is powerful.  Research supports claims that not only can music [...]

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I’ve been frittering, frittering away the time I set aside for writing.  Not only have I been frittering it away, but I’ve been putting one of my vices in its place.
This is a dangerous time of the year.  Not only is it Halloween, heralded in grocery stores and drug stores by rows upon rows of [...]

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I often ask my dissertation clients, when they commit to a goal, if this is a no- kidding, no-fooling goal.
Since it is often said that the key to finishing a dissertation is perseverance, I’m asking them if they will be unstoppable, and, in effect, to commit to perseverance.
But perseverance does not necessarily mean an all-out, urgent lock-down. 
One [...]

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“Write first” has been the admonition of many a writing maven, and it still holds water. Pop out of bed, get coffee and cereal, do the minimum of readying for the day and then you’re at it.  The writing is in the middle of your desk, top priority, first thing out of the box.
That works [...]

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