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What do you want from your advisor that will make your life as a writer easier? 
Great feedback, some feedback, or maybe just feedback once in a while?  How about an email saying hello?
If you’re not getting feedback or not even getting answers to your straight-forward questions, here’s one idea.  I’m not advising that you take [...]

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The doctoral experience is rife with minefields and potholes and all other kinds of things you don’t want to step in.
It’s important to be politically savvy in order to make your way to the other side of this experience. 
1.  Are you writing for your dissertation advisor?  If you’re not writing for your dissertation advisor, then [...]

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Writing this blog for the past year has been an act of joy for me. 
Many of you also write blogs, and so if you blog frequently, I would wager that you, too, find writing for your blog compelling.
I get to write about something I know, about a process that intrigues me and that is always [...]

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Curiosity is a boon to dissertation writers, except when it isn’t.
Curiosity is indeed powerful, giving us the will to explore, to persevere, and even to reach a goal.
I’ve suggested in an earlier blog (“To Enjoy Writing Your Dissertation, Use your Curiosity”) that it might be worth your while as researchers and writers to try to [...]

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This past week has been a busy one for me, in part because I’ve heard from many of you. 
It looks like many dissertation writers have decided that it’s time to bring someone else on board. 
And I’m not surprised. 
In such a long-term project as writing a dissertation, many writers want
–someone you can tell how you’ve messed [...]

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Making goals for an entire year seems to me to be self-sabotaging.
Are we talking about making a big change that you’ll be so disciplined that you’ll do that action you’re contemplating every single day for the next year?  That’s too much time to deal with. 
Chunk it down.
If you decide where you want to be in [...]

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The experiences of some of my clients with their dissertation advisors may be explained by research shared with me by Chris Peterson, author of Character Strengths and Virtue and A Primer in Positive Psychology.
According to Chris, the educational level of a person correlates negatively with some of the interpersonal strengths.
Social intelligence is not a top [...]

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First there were 2 and now there are 5… 5 foxes living next to us on my cul-de-sac inside the Washington DC beltway.
We first glimpsed the parents in early morning or late at night.  During the winter, when new snow and a stillness of the day gave them claim to our street, we would watch [...]

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During my commute, I heard a broadcast on the same subject as my most recent blog post.  It was about that huge impulse to flee that sweeps over us and can make it nearly impossible to stay focused on our writing.   That impulse can stem from our brain’s attempt to protect us from the lions [...]

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